Patricia Strazza
Patricia Jean Peterson Strazza died peacefully on Wednesday, October 23, 2024, in her home on a warm and sundrenched fall day, surrounded by family, her dear caregivers, and the art and beauty she loved.
Born in Logan, Utah, January 30, 1933, “PJ,” as she was known, had western roots and grew up surrounded by pioneer spirit, often taking road trips with her adventurous parents to national parks and other points of interest. In 1948, the family moved to Washington, DC, her father taking a job in the US Department of Interior and her mother starting her career at Sidwell Friends School. PJ blossomed during her time attending Sidwell Friends where she excelled in academics, played the piano and organ, even performing at the National Cathedral. After graduation she went north to Cornell University where she embraced college life and made numerous lifelong friends. Big Red held a special place in her heart thereafter. She also found there the love of her life, Richard Strazza, the lucky third wheel she met while dating Dick’s roommate. They married in 1955, the year she graduated from what is now Cornell’s College of Human Ecology.
Once married, she followed her mother’s footsteps into teaching, but soon found her hands more than full, with three children. She and Dick moved to Princeton in the mid ’60s where they raised their children (with a parenting style she jokingly called “benign neglect”) as well as a gaggle of Newfoundlands. PJ was a lover of dogs, people, and good times. No college football or hockey season went by without a raucous Cornell/Princeton party at the house; it remains surprising that a porch full of attendees collapsed only once. At various gatherings, holidays, and the annual Strazza Christmas Eve Open House, she could usually be found at the bench behind the piano singing hymns and Cornell songs, family and friends crowded around her, delighting in the glow of her warmth and merriment. She always welcomed her children’s many friends who hold their own fond remembrances of her from those times at the piano and of the smile she seemed to always wear.
During her time in Princeton, she volunteered for many causes including the Princeton Hospital Fete, Recording for the Blind, and local politics. Her passion for art led to her and Dick’s involvement in the local art scene, culminating in their purchase of Gallery 100 on Nassau Street in Princeton. They loved befriending and supporting local artists and that the gallery became a gathering spot for many.
It was her children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren that brought her the greatest joy. She reveled in their accomplishments, attending countless sporting events, school ceremonies, birthday parties, marching band competitions, and band concerts, always looking for a chance to celebrate them. She cherished the times she and Dick spent at their vacation home in Treasure Cay, Bahamas, where she escaped winter to soak in the sun sparkling off the turquoise blue water, loving the Abacos for their warm Bahamian people and island lifestyle. She shared their paradise with dear friends from Cornell and elsewhere. The door was always open there. And her heart was always open everywhere.
“We had so much fun” was the refrain as she contemplated her life these past years. Indeed, she did.
She was predeceased by her younger sister, Mary Lou of Portland, Oregon, and her husband, Dick Strazza. She is survived by her three children, Sophia Tomasi (Ted), Craig Strazza (Ann), and Karen Strazza (Jeff Heath); her sister, Sue Peterson Huguely (Geoff); as well as eight grandchildren and four great-grandchildren (with another on the way!). They, and her many nieces and nephews, in-laws, step grandchildren, friends, and all she touched in her unique way, will miss her terribly. But they also know that she is celebrating with her beloved “Pop Pop” and the family and friends that have gone before her.
She always shouted out to those leaving after a visit “Don’t change!” Same to you, PJ; know that the deeply fond memories of all those you have known will never change.
Arrangements and cremation services were private under the direction of the Holcombe-Fisher Funeral Home, 147 Main Street, Flemington, NJ 08822. For further information or to send an online condolence, please visit PJ’s memorial page and guestbook below at holcombefisher.com.
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Jean Hoy Hoover
Jean Hoy Hoover of Princeton, NJ, passed away peacefully at home surrounded by her loving family on October 22.
Born in 1930, Jean resided in Princeton for 61 years after moving from Lafayette Hill, Pa., in 1963. She spent many summers in Avalon, NJ, with her siblings and extended family. She attended Moore Institute of Art (now Moore College of Art) in Philadelphia after graduating from Norristown High School in 1948. There she met the love of her life, John L. Hoover Jr.
They were married and went on to have five children. A woman and mother of her generation, she stayed at home to care for her children. At age 44, she was predeceased by her husband and Jean became a tireless household manager and single mother.
As her children matured, Jean pursued her love of art and began her career as an interior designer and fashion illustrator. Her interior design work included the Nassau Inn in Princeton. Her fashion illustrations appeared in publications including The New York Times as well as local Princeton newspapers.
Jean also enjoyed her gardens and spent endless hours moving earth, rocks, plants, and shrubs to achieve just the right garden design. She was a longtime member of the Dogwood Garden Club as well as the Present Day Club. For many years Jean was an active volunteer at the Princeton Hospital and the Princeton Hospital Auxiliary. She also was an avid tennis and paddle tennis player well into her sixties. Her pride and joy was her family and “Grandy,” as she was known by her grandchildren, was the matriarch.
Predeceased are her parents, William F. and Anna M. (Gebhart) Hoy; siblings Elizabeth Gerhard, William F. Hoy, Jr., and Anne Finkbiner; and her husband John L. Hoover Jr.
Jean is survived by her five children, Curry Simmel (Scott), Stuart Hoover (Carey), John L. Hoover III, Eric D. Hoover, and Christian Hoover (Marianne); six grandchildren, Sarah A. Reynolds (Whitney), Alexandra J. Stabert (Samuel), Eric W. Hoover (Mary), Anne Cardew (Griffin), John R. Hoover (Sara), and Grace Hoover; six great-grandchildren, Callan, Eloise, Theodore, Eleanor, Wesley, and Sloane. She is also survived by many nieces, nephews, extended family, and friends.
A private Memorial Service will be held on Friday, November 29, 2024, at The Mather Hodge
Funeral Home, Princeton. The interment of Ashes will follow at Trinity-All Saints Cemetery.
In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to All Access Mental Health, 819 Alexander Road, Princeton, NJ 08540 (aamh.org).
